Before the intersection of current and prospective students at Schine Student Center, everyone had different motives for why they wanted SU. For most, it was the academics — the high-end programs in communications, policy studies and architecture. But also, they yearned for the diversity many of their suburban hometowns lacked.
Fleschman would watch YouTube vlogs of Margot Lee, a lifestyle YouTuber and SU student with more than 350,000 subscribers, and noticed a lot of people’s views aligned with hers. From south of Boston, Tara Gordon wanted to stray away from her town, specifically her high school that embraced the confederate flag — phone cases, screensavers, flags — and she needed out.
SU appealed to freshman Luca Giacobbe because he saw “old-school history with culture and parties.” First-year student Emily Kinka “people-watched”for 45 minutes after her first tour in September 2017. Other students visited often and decided to apply through early decision, a binding agreement to attend SU upon acceptance.
Touring SU meant prospective students would also have to face their own perceptions of Greek life, regardless of whether it was a big part of their decision to commit to SU. Connor Muldoon, a prospective student at the time, believed fraternities were for “certain brands of people.” Fleschman planned on joining a sorority but wanted to meet a mix of people. Kinka, now a communication and rhetorical studies major, was unsure how deeply Greek life culture was rooted in SU.
“I was like, ‘Is it just this school that’s beefy about Greek life?’” Kinka said. “Then I looked at all the other schools, and it was the same.”
But most didn’t know how to distinguish professional and social fraternities and sororities. When mulling over her college decision, Gordon had questions. Weren’t they all the same? Was there a difference between a social fraternity, and say, Theta Tau?
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For the thousands of high school seniors planning to attend SU, a large part of their decision rode on April 20, 2018. For Fleschman, it was her first time visiting her dream school. Students like Kinka and Gordon wanted to be “wowed.” Would SU convince them? They had all been on college tours, but accepted students day would be different, they thought.
After riding up with parents and staying in hotels near campus, students received messages an incident with Greek life appeared in the prospective students’ inbox. Muldoon’s sister’s best friend, who attends SU, texted him “Oh my god, you’re literally visiting on the worst day.” Fleschman met with a then-senior at SU at Cafe Kubal who filled her in. Parents and neighbors heard the news with details still unclear.
“I didn’t think it was that big of a deal at first,” Gordon said. “I was like, aren’t all fraternities like pieces of sh*t? Not shocking.”
It was just another fraternity incident like University of Oklahoma and University of Georgia, some thought. But this time, they were in the middle of it. They would have to see the aftermath firsthand.
“My mom was joking like, ‘You can’t back out now,’” Kinka said.